Want to Have Children. Ways to avoid Bored Couple Sex

Sex activity can be a burden for couples who are trying to have a baby. The feeling that arises when the effort was not well realized pregnant. Sex is supposed to be a fun activity turned into a stressful activity.

Survey ever conducted in the UK revealed that the average couple have sex 104 times until finally the woman pregnant. This means that couples have sex four times a week for six months.

According to sex counselor and author of the book 'She Comes First', Ian Kerner, not surprising that couples trying to have children, began to feel sex as a burden. He also outlines why it could happen. Here's the explanation, as quoted from various sources:

Never Stuck Routines
One way of fun during sex is when it is done with spontaneous activity. Although it is you do in bed, at night, at least the spontaneity of making you become more passionate.

But when you and your husband are trying to have children, you like to schedule a time so start making love. Usually the couple will have sex in the fertile period. That's what makes the sex is no longer done because of the passion, but a duty, according to the author of the book 'Sex and the Baby Years' Hilda Hutcherson, MD

Assumes Stop Sex For Purpose
The man who was trying to have a child of her partner could feel sex is really just a destination. Sex is a great way for women to get their sperm. Surveys conducted in English to prove it. There are at least 11% of men who admitted sex makes them feel used.

For women, sex also so as unpleasant. "One of my clients to scold him and say 'it does not take long! You also do not need to enjoy it! Enough ejaculation!'", Said Huctcherson describe one female patient who no longer comfortable with sex activity.

Relieve Stress
The process of having this child, if done already too long, stress can make a pair. In the end, you and your husband have sex lesson became more and if any activity was done, so it's less fun.

Ian suggested, if you and your husband are trying to have children for a long time and have not succeeded, visit the gynecologist. But remember, the treatment of these doctors can make sex as something that is stressful.

A study published in Fertility & Sterility found that women who are undergoing fertility treatment report so dissatisfied with their sex lives. They were so rarely have sex and feel less passionate.